Cognitive Dissonant

if I have been in love, then I’ve experienced it briefly but at least a few times.

if that wasn’t love…

god help me. 

Ok, ok… so attraction isn’t enough. this lovely young lady has been so beaten and scarred by her, numerous and extraordinary, previous misfortunes, that she is fearful of believing in it one more time.

There is no way for me to convince her this time would be different, that I really am just that nice a guy.

There is no way for me to promise her heart won’t be broken again.  How can I promise anything.

“and that’s why falling in love is so god damn hard!” (name that movie and you get a cookie.)

What do we take from this?

1. I am patient in all things, except falling in love.
2. It usually takes me three weeks to fall for a girl, and I need to start warning women about that.
3. eHarmony is not for everyone.

Really really want an e-reader.  anyone of them at this point.  probably best that I’m effectively broke!

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